Yesterday, my patience was tested to the limits… why does everyone take the liberty to say whatever they have in mind without evening thinking what effect it would have on the other person. How does it matter to anyone in the world as to what my weight is.. yes… my height is 5’5 and I my weight is 45!! Yes.. that’s it… any problem??..if I am or I will have any health issues, that’s entirely my/ my family’s problem. How does it make a difference to you!! Why can’t you bl***y mind your own damn business.. or is it that you have no other work/ topic to discuss, apart from my leanness!! Is it that you guys are so very ashamed of your overflowing body that you find pleasure in insulting others. Just to get a sadistic pleasure or does that make you feel less bad about your own FAT BODY!! First look at your uneven figure… tummy coming out…hips bursting to come out of your clothes… arms like a wrestler… face so heavy as if someone has punched it sooo hard that it has swollen… walk so wobbly that even Donald duck would shy away.. well I m not ashamed of writing all this, if you aren’t ashamed of talking non sense in front of me!!
Some excerpts of what was told to me yday… and my responses in bracket which I obviously didn’t say…
“hahahaha… hey bhagwaan.. tum kitni patli ho!!” ( hey bhagwaan… aap jaisi moti hone se toh achcha hai main itni patli hoon)
Kaise haddiya nikal rahi hain tumhari (and aapka toh dekho… kaise maas latak raha hai har jagah se!!.. koi toh jagah chodi hoti)
Kuch khaya karo.. (aap chodo tab naa!!)
Ghar mein koi khane ko nahi deta kya (nahi saara khana toh aap kha jaate ho)
Thoda toh wajan badhao…( jitna aap mujhe badhane ko keh rahe ho…usse aadha hee aap kam kar k toh dikhao!)
Aisa lag raha hai jaise hanger par kapde latke huey hain ( kam se kam tha-se huey toh nahi hain!! Aapke toh aisa lag raha hai..jaise jabardasti band kar rakha ho..aur saara shareer yeh bol raha ho… mujhe bahar nikaloooo!!!)
Well, since courtesy and etiquette stopped me to say what I wanted to and I wanted to vent my anger and frustration somewhere.. it had to be my blog!!
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1 comment:
Well I have lots to talk on the subject . I am barely 5'1'' and I have received multiple such qualitative value additions by all species, but I will restrict my opinions to avoid it being difficult to read/ digest.
One immediate idea that I would want to bounce off is.. Is this a trait only in Indians?? I have interacted with a few people in U.S. but think that they always are more decent in passing such remarks.. if at all.
I am not a person who usually draws comparison between India and U.S trying to prove one better than other.. but we all are adopting a lot from west and it is only fair to adopt more virtues than vices.
People have to be careful in passing such comments. No one is perfect. and commenting about someone's physical appearance , really puts me off, if said in a way that it hurts...I have had some arguements on this with my hostel mates earlier...
Net Net , you can choose to comment on someone.. but make sure it is coupled with words that does not make it look awful.
I agree with you arpita. If someone comes and tells, " This will suit you better than that, cos u are slim.. " I can accept.. but if someone takes the hanger route.. No yaar.. ( unless someone close.. strict no)
[ sorry, i m not able to keep it short.. so i stop now)
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